PPBC #5: THEY SAY IT'S YOUR BIRTHDAY!

Our family members, especially those on Haligi's side, are party animals.

I remember, during the earlier stages of our relationship, that I was amazed at how Haligi's family would find reason to celebrate even the smallest milestone (a milestone still, nonetheless)--a balikbayan's homecoming, easter egg hunts, halloween trick or treat parties, death anniversaries, new jobs, promotions, good grades, town fiestas, and the list goes on. They are certainly one jolly, partying lot!

The party fever has since rubbed off to our small family and thus, ever since our Haligilet was born, we marked his "birthdays" every month till he turned one...

and then had birthday parties every year (click on the pictures to access party photos)...

I love organizing my son's parties as it brings out the child in me. I pride myself on being totally hands on, from conceptualization of the theme, to designing the invites, to buying the loot and prizes, cooking food (for his 2nd and 4th birthdays) and of course, entertaining guests. I also experimented on a lot of personalized party favors and decors and the results were truly rewarding!

While it seemed that our parties bordered on the lavish or extravagant, do note that our parties were carefully planned and budgeted. You'd even be surprised at how much (actually, how little) we spent.

I know of some people who would take out payday loans just to give their child a great party. I guess you cannot blame some parents who feel the "pressure" of having to keep up with a "hospitable" culture such us ours. Lucky for us, it took a bit of imagination, resourcefulness (and very supportive grandparents, hehehe!) to do the trick.

More than the fanfare, we see birthdays as wonderful opportunities to give thanksgiving for the past year of smiles, anecdotes and milestones. Best of all, Haligilet's birthday marks another wonderful year of our parenthood.

Literally and figuratively, a party is just icing on the cake.

EKS-OH-EKS-OH